Akwai alamar daya kawai na daidai ko kuskuren haruffa - wannan farin ciki ne . Idan ayyukanmu ya kai ga farin ciki, to, babu abin damu da damuwa. Duk da haka, kadan ya zama cikin duniya na farin ciki. Yanzu yana da kyau ga yara maza da 'yan mata su kasance tare da dabi'u masu yawa, kuma a sakamakon haka, an sami rabin mata da rabin maza. Kuma a tsakanin girma da "raunin zuciya" babu shakka akwai rikice-rikice a rarraba hakkokin da wajibi a cikin zumuncin interpersonal.
A game da wannan, mutane suna ƙoƙarin ƙayyade (kuma, zai fi dacewa, ci gaba) halaye na yanayin matar da matar. Bayan haka, hanyarka kawai ta haɗu da dangantakarku ita ce ɗaukar matsayi da ka'idar mutum ta ƙaddara.
Ƙididdigar Astrological
A cikin astrology, rashin fahimta da halayen ma'aurata ya bayyana cewa namiji da matar suna da nau'o'in hali daban. Akwai nau'o'in nau'i guda biyu kawai a cikin taurari - tunanin da kuma dacewa. Nau'in na tunanin shine Ranar kamar Cancers, Pisces, Scorpions, Aries, Streltsov, Lviv. Ga masu hankali, bi da bi, Capricorn, Taurus, Gemini, Virgo, Libra, Aquarius. Haɗuwa da wasu mutane daga "duniya" daban-daban na haifar da rikice-rikice.
A sakamakon haka, mata suna kokawar rashin hankali na namiji, idan matar ta kasance daga layi, kuma mijin ya dace. Kuma madaidaiciya.
Psychology na incompatibility
Lokacin da mutane suka auri, sun riga sun kafa, dabi'u, dabi'u, ra'ayi. A cikin farkon shekaru na haɗin gwiwa, bambancin bambance-bambancen ma'aurata suna bayyana, kuma waɗannan bambance-bambance, zuwa mataki ɗaya ko ɗaya, suna cikin duka, har ma mafi dacewa, mutane.
Kowace nauyin yanayi na matar, matar da miji, mutane sukan fara dacewa da juna tare da nasara ko babba. Wannan tsari a kowane hali ya haifar da rikice-rikice , rikice- rikice, jayayya, da kuma wani lokaci ga ofishin likitancin.
A cikin ilimin kwakwalwa akwai matsaloli guda hudu na "ma'aurata"
- rashin fahimtar juna shine rashin iyawar mutane don fahimtar ra'ayi game da wani, ko kuma rashin yiwuwar tabbatar da hakkinsu;
- bambancin ra'ayoyin akan al'amurra da suke buƙatar ra'ayi ɗaya a cikin iyali - da farko, matsala na zabar rinjaye, shugaban iyali;
- incompatibility na haruffa - duk wani aiki, kalmomin matar ta fusata abokin tarayya;
- incompatibility da halaye da ayyuka na abokan tarayya - ayyuka da ayyukan da ɗaya daga cikin ma'aurata suka hana (da son zuciya ko rashin sani) nasarar cimma burin da wasu mata suka sanya.
Vedas
Amma Vedas nan da nan a kan tabbatacce: gabas yana magana game da abin da ya kamata ya zama halayen kirki na yanayin matar da matar. Wato, abin da - nauyin mace, da kuma - namiji.
- Asceticism - wato, asceticism. Bisa ga Vedas, wannan ƙima ce kawai. Da zarar mace ta kasance a cikin ta'aziyya, ana halakar da hormones mata. Mata ya kamata su yi duk abin da yardar (har ma a tashi a karfe 5 na safe). Duk da haka, farkawa ta taimaka wajen magance matsaloli. Dalilin dalili na matar shine iya zama miji. Idan matar tana kwance a kan kwanciya a dukan rana, yana duban akwatin, mace tana jin cewa iyalin yana cikin ɓoyayye, kuma ya zama abin da yake da shi.
- Gaskiya da budewa halin dabi'ar mata ce. Ya bayyana cewa lokacin da mace ta buɗe ra'ayinta ga mijinta, ta kula da iyali. Mace wanda ya bayyana tunaninsa da tsoro ya sa mutum ya dogara kan kansa. Ba zai iya tafiya zuwa hagu ba, karya, zama mai laushi, saboda za a azabtar da shi ta hanyar rashin laifi a gaban tsarki da amincin matarsa.
- Calmness shine ingancin hali na miji. Jinƙanci yana tsiro ne daga dogara da kansa, wannan jin sanyi.
- Aminci ya kasance mace analogue na natsuwa. Cunkushe yana tsiro daga farin ciki, kuma yana nufin jituwa a kusa.