Gifts ga sabonweds a bikin aure

Gidan bikin shine babban abin farin ciki a rayuwar mutane masu ƙauna guda biyu, tare da abinci mai dadi, rawa, fun. Babu bikin ba zai iya yin ba tare da ba da kyauta ga matan auren auren ba domin bikin aure.

Bayan karɓar gayyata ga bikin aure, kowane bako zai fara neman kyauta. Zaɓin kyauta ga sabon auren a bikin aure ba abu mai sauki ba ne. Bayan haka, ina son kyautar ta kasance ainihin, dole kuma, mafi mahimmanci, cewa yana son duka amarya da ango. A bikin aure akwai al'ada don ba da kyauta mai girma, kyauta. Modern baƙi ƙara fi so in gabatar da sabon ma'aurata kudi daidai. Duk da haka, yana da al'ada don kari kyautar kyauta tare da kyauta, abu na asali, furanni ko abu wanda aka kashe ta hannun kansa. Da ke ƙasa akwai jerin sunayen kyauta mafi kyau da kuma buƙata na ainihi ga sabuwarweds a bikin aure:

Domin kyauta don tada ainihin hadari na motsin zuciyarmu, dole ne a gabatar da shi sosai. Don yin wannan, ya kamata ka zabi gasa mai kyau, waƙa, ko kuma tuna wasu yanayi mai ban sha'awa daga rayuwar ma'auratan da ba a cikin aure ba. Dole ne a gabatar da labaran da aka yi wa 'yan matan aure a bikin aure a fili, don yin dariya a cikin baƙi kuma su gaishe kowa da kowa. An sani cewa a lokacin bikin aure, ba kawai matan auren sun karbi kyautai ba. Akwai al'adar da aka yi a yayin bukukuwan da aka ba da sabuwar aure tare da kananan kyauta ga baƙi. Mafi kyawun kyauta ga baƙi daga newlyweds:

A ƙasashen Yammacin, kyauta ga baƙi daga sabon auren ana sa a kan teburin kafin kowane bako har ma kafin bikin ya fara. A cikin hadisai babu ka'idoji marar kyau - matan auren auren zasu iya faranta wa baƙi kyauta a duk lokacin bikin. Kyauta kyauta ce mai kyau don bayyana halin kirki ga mutum. Kuma cewa kyautar don bikin aure ana tunawa da dogon lokaci, ya kamata a zaba kuma ya ba tare da ƙauna mai girma.