An yarda da al'ada na saka suturar auren auren tun zamanin da. Amma, duk da takardun wannan salon, har yanzu yanzu auren maza da mata na da matsala - wanda yatsa zai ɗauka zobe.
A wace yatsan suna sa sautin aure na yarinya yarinya?
Ɗaya daga cikin shahararrun labarun labarun game da haɗin gwiwar shine labarin tarihin Maryamu da Yusufu. Bisa ga labari, masassaƙa ya sa zobe a gefen hagu, amma wanda yatsa - ra'ayoyin suna raguwa. Wani ya yi imanin cewa babu sunan, ɗayan - matsakaicin. Mawallafan zane-zane sukan nuna lokacin da suke zane-zane a cikin zane-zanensu, amma ba duka suna bi da labarun gargajiya ba - Rafael da Perugino, alal misali, wanda aka kwatanta Yusufu, wanda ya yi waƙa a hannun yarin Maryamu.
A tsakiyar zamanai, babu wani yarjejeniya a kan waɗannan alamomin aure - kusan kowane mai mulki ta wurin dokokin da aka kafa wanda yatsan yatsa na zane- zanen batutuwa ya ci gaba. Kuma zabin a cikin wannan yanayin zai iya fada sosai a kowane yatsa na hannuwan biyu. A Turanci na karni na 17, alal misali, ya sanya wannan alamar aure a kan yatsunsa, yayin da Jamus suka ɗauki ɗan yatsan.
Tun a cikin Kristanci, amsar tambaya game da zabar yatsa don zoben haɗin kai ya kasance mai rikitarwa, masana tarihi sunyi ƙoƙari su juya zuwa wasu tushe. A cikin d ¯ a Misira, tare da hannayen hannu, masana tarihi ba su da kariya, amma yatsan mazaunan wannan ƙasar sun fi son suna. Babu shakka, a d ¯ a Misira, igiya mai tsayi da aka haɗa a cikin zobe alamace ce ta ƙauna marar ƙarewa. Masarawa masu arziki sun ba da ƙawanin zinariya da aka ƙauna, da marasa galihu - daga tagulla, tagulla ko azurfa.
Akwai fasali mai ban sha'awa na bayanin bayanin dalilin cewa yatsun yatsun da aka zaba domin alamun aure. Bisa ga wannan labari, dukkan yatsunsu suna wakiltar dangi na kusa - yara, iyaye, 'yan'uwa maza da mata, da ma'aurata ba tare da sunaye ba. Idan ka ninka hannuwanka tare, danna yatsunsu zuwa juna, to, dukkan yatsunsu, sai dai marasa suna, suna da sauƙi don yadawa baya. Wannan ya nuna ainihin ra'ayin aure - mutane suna yin aure don zama junansu, suna bauta wa junansu. Yara, iyaye, 'yan'uwa maza da mata sun bar gidan, kuma kawai ma'aurata za su zauna har abada.
A wace yatsan suna sawa zobe a yau?
A cikin zamani na zamani, al'adar kirkirar haɗin kai a kan yatsan hannu ko wani ƙayyade addini da wurin zama. Masu bin addinin Katolika suna zaɓar yatsin hannun hagu, tk. Yi imani da cewa dole ne a sa wajan aure a gefe daya kamar zuciya. Bugu da ƙari, akwai wata dogon lokaci da cewa yatsin hannu na wannan hannayen yana kai tsaye zuwa zuciya ta hanyar kwayar cutar, jijiya ko jijiya (dangane da fassarar). Orthodox ya sanya alama ta daidaitattun mata a kan yatsa na huɗu na hannun dama, yana ci gaba daga ra'ayi cewa "hakkin" dangi ne na kalmar "gaskiya", haka ma, gicciye ma yana gicciye.
A gefen dama dama alamomin auren suna sawa da Jamus, Indiyawa, Norwegians, Spaniards, Russia, Ukrainians, Poles, Greeks, Venezuelans. Armeniya, Azerbaijan,
A wace yatsan yarinyar auren mijinta ya mutu kuma aka sake shi?
Babu dokoki na musamman game da abin da yatsa ya zama zinare bayan asarar mace ko saki. Mafi yawan zaɓi shine sauyawa na hannayensu, i.e. idan bayan bikin auren matar ta sa zoben aure a hannun dama, to, a lokacin da ta mutu - a hagu. Ma'aurata don mafi yawan bangarorin sun fi so su ɗauki zauren bikin aure gaba ɗaya, don haka ba zai haifar da tunanin ƙaddara ba.