A halin da ake ciki a yau da kuma hanyoyi, ba a da daɗewa ba sabon ƙaura ya fito, wanda a cikin ainihin yana daga cikin ci gaba da sadomasochism. Sunan da ake ba wa wannan jagoran ya ba da haɗin haɗin Ingilishi, bauta, sado-maso, wanda a cikin ma'anar fassara na nufin - ɗaure, mamaye, BDSM. A cikin nau'in haɓaka, ana kiran wannan BDSM.
Dalilin wannan ƙaddamarwa ya kasance a musayar ra'ayi na gaba da iko na ɗaya daga cikin abokan tarayya a kan ɗayan, wanda ya bambanta shi daga halayen sadaukarwa ta yau da kullum. BDSM - wasa na abokan tarayya guda biyu, wanda shine manufar kara yawan jima'i ta hanyar raba iko akan juna.
Ya kamata a lura da cewa a cikin waɗannan wasannin jima'i akwai wasu dokoki da ke ba abokan tarayya da tsaro, a jiki da kuma na halin kirki, da kuma dangane da dokokin laifuka. Tarihin ci gaba da wannan rukuni ya dawo fiye da ƙarni biyu daga lokacin da aka ambata shi a cikin ayyukan marubuta Marquis de Sade, wanda sunansa ya ba da sunan daya daga cikin kalmomi "sadism".
A cikin BDSM akwai wurare da dama, suna da alaƙa, alamar alama, halayen har ma siffofin fasaha. Ɗaya daga cikin waɗannan hanyoyi masu fasaha shine daukar hoto da kuma zane. Daga ra'ayi na mutum mai nisa daga wannan shugabanci, aikin fasaha a cikin style na BDSM na Art, don sanya shi mai laushi, mai ban mamaki kuma har ma dan tsoro.
Me ake tattake?
A cikin subculture na BDSM, akwai halayen da abubuwa da yawa, duka rinjaye da ƙaddamarwa. Ayyuka da ayyukan jima'i na al'ada ne, inda wasu ayyukan tashin hankali suke amfani da wani bawa ko bawa. Yin tafiya cikin jima'i yana daya daga cikin irin waɗannan abubuwa, wanda aka yi amfani dashi a cikin jima'i da kuma wani lokaci a yanayin gida.
Don amsa tambaya game da abin da ake nufi da tattakewa, dole ne a sake komawa zuwa kalmomin Ingilishi. Kalmar nan ta samo fashe daga kalmar kalmar Ingilishi ko kuma ta tattake, wanda ke nufin "tattake" ko kuma "stomp". Kuma wannan shi ne ainihin aikin - stomping ko tafiya a kusa da jiki abokin.
Menene zubar da ciki a cikin jima'i na mambobin kungiyar BDSM? Wannan wani ɓangare na wasan kwaikwayon wasa, wanda ake amfani da su a matsayin irin jima'i, lokacin da mashaidi ko farfaji ke tafiya ta jiki wanda ke cikin ƙasa, haifar da ciwo da wahala. Ko da yaya irin wannan wasan zai iya zama alama, dukkanin mahalarta suna jin dadin jiki da na jin dadin shi, tun da yake wannan yana daya daga cikin shirye-shiryen kai tsaye ga aikin jima'i .
Nau'in tattakewa
An rarraba waƙa zuwa kashi biyu:
- Ƙunƙwasawa. Abokin da ke da mahimmanci a cikin aikin wasan kwaikwayo yana tattake jikin jikin da ke da ƙafafun ƙananan, ƙarfin da matsin lamba akan jikin wanda ke ƙarƙashin ba shi da girma. Wani ɗan'uwa ko iyawa
Yi tafiya a kan dukkan sassan jikin bawansa - a baya, ciki, kirji. Daga cikin matakan tsaro, tafiya a kai da fuska an cire shi. - Yin tafiya mai zurfi shine nauyin kyawawan dabi'u, wanda abokin haɗin gwiwa zai iya tafiya a jikin jikin mutum a cikin takalman titi. Lokacin da mace ta mamaye a cikin biyu, to, takalma a kan abubuwan da suke da mahimmanci sunyi aiki, wanda a hakika ya kasance abin bakin ciki da kuma wani ɓangare na wasan daga nau'in sadomasochistic.
Ga mutanen da ba su sani ba, irin wannan aikin jima'i na iya zama da mawuyacin hali, amma hakan ya faru ne ta hanyar yarda da juna tsakanin abokan hulɗa. Dole ne in faɗi cewa tare da tafiya mai tsanani, har ma da dugadugan haddasawa, hadarin rauni ya yi tsawo, amma duk abokin tarayya ya yi gargadin game da wannan kuma ya bi dokokin tsaro. Duk da haka baƙon abu zai iya zama daga gefe, irin waɗannan wasanni da jinsin jima'i suna da mashawarta da mabiya. Tsuntsu yana da lafiya lafiya, kuma, idan yana da kyau ga wani, to me yasa ba.