Ba wani asiri ne wanda ke da sha'awar jima'i ba zai iya kashe duk wani sha'awar yin soyayya. Lalle ne, idan kun san gaba daya labarin misali na jima'i, fassarar da kuma sha'awar sannu-sannu bace. Maza, a matsayin mai mulkin, su ne na farko da zasu fara jin wannan rashin tausayi da kuma haɗuwa a cikin jima'i kuma wannan yana da haɗari, kamar yadda suke nema sabon mace a nema neman sababbin abubuwan da suka faru. Maza, ba kamar mata ba, suna da yawa kuma suna budewa don gwaje-gwajen jima'i.
Idan matan suna so su guje wa irin wannan yanayi, to, ya kamata su san abin da mazajen su ke so. Bayan haka, haɓaka jima'i yana daya daga cikin muhimman abubuwan da ke tsakanin ma'aurata.
Abubuwan da suka fi so daga maza a jima'i
Game da abubuwan da ake son jima'i, da dandano, ba a jayayya ba, amma a cikin ilimin jima'i akwai kididdigar da ake danganta da ilimin lissafin jinsi na maza da mata da kuma zabe na maza, don haka ba haka ba ne mai wuya a amsa tambayoyin abin da mutane ke ciki a cikin gado.
Yin jima'i wani mutum ne da kuma sirri na sirri. Bisa ga wasu nazarin da wasu kungiyoyi suka gudanar game da tambayoyin da suka sa mutane suka fi so, an yanke shawarar cewa a cikin abubuwan da maza ke son ba wani abu mai ban mamaki ba ne. Wannan jerin jerin nau'i na 5-7 da ke ba mutumin izinin cimma burin jima'i da ake so.
A cikin kayyade wane hali, ƙaunatattuna a cikin maza, dole ne mutum ya dogara da abubuwan da za a zabi namiji. A matsayinka na mai mulki, tasirin jima'i na musamman ga maza ya riga ya wuce inda:
- suna iya ganin mace, wato, "ƙauna da idanunsu";
- rinjaye matar, ji da ikonsa;
- da gaske shiga cikin cikin mace.
Kashi na farko ya ƙunshi irin waɗannan abubuwa :
- Rider . Sananne ga duk matsayi, lokacin da mace ta zauna a kan mutum, a gabatar da shi a cikin dukan nazarin. Wannan matsayi yana da bambancin lokacin da mace ta fuskanci mutumin ko tana fuskantar ta baya. A kowane matsayi, mutum zai iya shiga zurfin ciki cikin mace kuma a lokaci guda ƙaunace shi.
- Matsayi lokacin da mutum yake baya , da kuma bambancin bambancin karewar kare. A irin wannan matsayi, mutumin, da farko, ya mamaye, na biyu ya ga matar kuma ya sarrafa ƙungiyoyi, na uku, a wannan matsayi, namiji zai iya shiga ciki sosai a cikin mace, wanda ya ba shi dama na musamman.
- Matsayin "Mountain Magic" yana da matsayi a matsayin wuri na zama tare da gwiwoyi masu lankwasa, abokan tarayya suna fuskantar fuska da fuska, kafafun mata suna yadu don iyakancewa tare da mutum. A cikin wannan matsayi, ba zai yiwu a shiga zurfin cikin abokin tarayya ba, amma saduwa ta gani, jin dadi da halayyar sha'awa yana ba da damar amfani da shi azaman ɓangaren jima'i.
Babban rinjaye na maza shine :
- Matsakaicin mishan , wanda zai iya bambanta, a matsayin abokan tarayya. A cikin wannan matsayi, namiji yana mamaye mace, wanda ke ba da gudummawa ba kawai don ilimin lissafi ba, amma gamsuwa ta tunani.
- Matsayi na gaba , wanda ma yana da bambanci tare da gwiwoyi ko kuma kafafun kafafu, madaidaiciya ko bent baya, ya ba mutumin damar jin dadin jikin mace.
Matsayi tare da zurfin shiga cikin azzakari :
- Matsayin "Lotus" . Matsayin da mutum yake zaune a cikin kamannin siffar lotus ko, ƙafar kafa a Turkiyya, kuma wata mace da ke da murya mai zurfi ta rufe ƙafafunsa tare da ragowarsa, yana matsawa kuma yana kwantar da hankali a baya. A cikin wannan matsayi, mutum zai iya sarrafa matsalolinsa, sa'an nan kuma ya shiga cikin ƙirjinsa, sa'an nan kuma ya motsa wajanta da manyan matsaloli.
- Matsayi "Oyster" . A cikin wannan matsayi, namiji zai iya shiga ciki sosai a cikin mace, haka kuma, amfani da wannan matsayi kuma yana da sauki sauyawa daga matsayi na mishan.
Mene ne abin da ake fi so don maza - tambayoyin mutum ɗaya, amma da zarar sun sami amsa gareshi kuma ci gaba da gwadawa a jima'i, gwada sababbin matakai kuma kada ka manta game da batun jima'i, kowane mace na iya tabbatar da cewa ƙaunatacciyar ƙaƙƙarfansa ba sa son neman sha'awa a gefe .