Yau zamu ji dadi na "haihuwa". Yawancin ma'aurata da yawa sun riga sun shiga cikin haihuwar 'ya'yansu. Amma abokin tarayya a cikin haihuwa yana iya zama ba kawai matar ba, amma har ma wani ɗan mutum. Za a iya haifar da haɗin aure tare da mahaifiyarka ko tare da budurwa. Babban abu shi ne cewa mutum zai iya taimaka wa mace cikin haihuwar ta cikin dukan haihuwa - daga yaƙe-yaƙe har zuwa haihuwar yaro. Mataimakin ba wai kawai ba ne, shi ne mai aiki mai aiki a haihuwa, wanda ke taimakawa wajen samar da yanayin jin dadin jiki ga mace a cikin aiki, ta taimaka masa ta rage ciwo da tallafawa ta jiki da jiki.
Rahoton abokan haɗin: "don" da "a kan"
A gaban mijinta
Abokan hulɗa tare da mijinta nagari ne saboda a cikin wannan matsala, yayin da yake yaro, namiji zai iya zama "ƙwaƙwalwar ƙafa" da kuma tunanin jiki (namiji zai iya kafa ma'amala tsakanin mace da likitoci) da jiki (za'a iya amfani da baya da kirji a matsayin mai goyan baya a lokacin sabani).
Zuwa ga '' '' ƙananan '' na haihuwa tare da mijinta za a iya ɗaukar halayyar mace, wani namiji mai saukin hankali (maza da yawa a cikin ɗakin ajiyar). Bugu da ƙari, bisa ga wasu maza, haifaffen maƙwabcin juna suna da tasiri sosai game da dangantakar abokantaka na ma'aurata.
Mahaifiyar gaban
Zaka iya ɗaukar mahaifiyarka tare da kai don haihuwa amma lokacin da 'yarka da mahaifiyarka suna da alaka da aminci. Amfani da irin wannan haihuwa shine cewa mace da ta haifi kanta, ta fi fahimtar abin da ke faruwa, a gabanta zaka iya manta game da kunya.
Amma wani lokaci iyayen mahaifiyar na iya samun kishiyar hakan. Mahaifiyar da ke da juna biyu, tana jin kula da mahaifiyarta, yana da annashuwa don ta daina haihuwa. Har ila yau, akwai lokuta a yayin da mahaifiyarsa ta damu sosai ga 'yarta, da kuma matsalolin likita kawai.
Samun abokin
Yarinyar da ke gabatarwa a cikin uwargidan mahaifiyar tana da kwarewar mahaifiyarta, amma ba ta da wata matsala. Tana iya fahimtar budurwa da kuma nuna tausayi tare da ita, yayin da yake cike da hankali, da kuma tsara saduwa da likitoci.
Abinda bai dace da haihuwa tare da aboki ba ne, idan ba zato ba tsammani dangantakar dake tsakanin budurwa ta ƙare, to, mafi kusantawa zai iya zama sananne ga mutane da yawa.
Yaya abokan haihuwa?
Za'a iya samun bambancin da dama na haifaffen abokan tarayya.
- Lokacin da abokin tarayya ya kasance a yayin aiwatarwa. Wannan zabin ya fi dacewa da waɗannan matan da suke da cikakken tabbaci a cikin shawarar da za a haifa tare.
- Lokacin da abokin tarayya ya kasance a yakin, amma a lokacin ƙoƙari da kuma haihuwar yaron, an nemi shi ya bar. An gayyace shi lokacin da aka sanya crumb a cikin kirji. Wannan ita ce mafi kyawun bambancin jigilar haɗin gwiwa daga ra'ayi na mata.
- Lokacin da aka gayyaci mahaifinsa kawai lokacin da ya sa jaririn ya kirji. Wannan wani zaɓi ne mafi m ga "rauni" namiji psyche.
Don haɗuwa da haifa a cikin waɗannan sassan maganin a cikin magunguna daban-daban suna bi da su. Amma a kowane hali, yana da wuya cewa abokin tarayya zai kasance a cikin dakin aiki. Watakila yana iya kasancewa a farkon tsari. A wasu gidaje masu haihuwa, maza sukan sa jaririn a kan kirji kuma an yarda su kula da shi a cikin farkon kwanakin rayuwa.
Shirye-shiryen haɗuwar juna
Don shirya don haihuwar haɗin haɗe, yana da muhimmanci don halartar taro ɗaya don mata masu juna biyu, abokin tarayya ya dace ya nuna yadda yadda haihuwar take faruwa da kuma abin da aikinsa ke cikin wannan tsari.
Me kuke bukata don haihuwa?
Domin ya kasance abokin tarayya a cikin haifaffen haɗin gwiwa, namiji dole ne ya wuce wasu gwaje-gwaje.
Ƙididdiga masu dacewa don haihuwa tare da haɗin gwiwa sun haɗa da:
- gwajin jini don aikin Wasserman;
- akan HIV;
- a kan hepatitis;
- Fluorography;
- Smear kan staphylococcus daga hanci.