Yaya, yadda mutane masu rikitarwa suka kasance a ranar jima'i na bikin aure, har ma wadanda ba su taɓa canza baki ba tare da baki, suna sha'awar duk alamun bikin aure. Musamman mahimmanci a tsakanin mutane shi ne labarin da ya faru game da shekara mai tsalle - suna cewa, ba zai yiwu ba a yi bikin aure a cikin wannan shekara, iyalin za su sha wahala ga dukan mummunan bala'i. Shin zai yiwu a yi aure a cikin shekara ta biki ko kuma a yi bikin aure? Kuma akwai wasu dalilai na wannan farfagandar?
Mene ne shekara mara kyau?
Don amsa wannan tambayar idan zai yiwu a yi bikin aure a cikin shekara mai tsalle, dole ne mutum ya fahimci, kuma me ya saba da gaskiyar cewa a cikin shekara wata rana mai ban mamaki ta bayyana? A al'adance, an yi la'akari da shekara maras kyau, an haɗa shi da gaskiyar cewa mai kula da wannan shekara shine Kasyan. Wannan saint a cikin mutanen da aka dauke da m, m, m kansa da kuma irin mugunta, wanda ya kawo mutane kawai misfortunes. Kuma tare da irin wannan mai kula da abin da ke da kyau daga shekara don jira? Amma wannan ƙwararren ra'ayi ba'a tabbatarwa ta hanyar kididdiga - rashin tausayi yana faruwa ba kawai a cikin shekaru masu tsalle ba.
Har ila yau, akwai ra'ayi cewa wannan shekarar da ake zargin yana haifar da mutuwar fiye da wasu shekaru, ba tare da wahalar da wani "karin" rana ba. Amma wannan kimiyya ba ta tabbatar da kimiyya ba - wani annoba, kowace shekara tsalle ba alama.
Me ya sa aka ce an sami karin matsaloli a cikin shekara ta biki, shin kakanninmu sun kasance ba su da kyau? A'a, a wasu hanyoyi suna da gaskiya, akwai fiye da rana ɗaya a cikin shekara, wanda ke nufin cewa abubuwan zasu iya faruwa kadan. Kuma me ya sa suka dogara ga mummunan abubuwa? Abin sani kawai mutane sun fi son yin imani da abubuwa mara kyau kuma sun fi jin dadi game da bala'i, maimakon farin ciki da farin ciki.
Shin zai yiwu a yi bikin aure a cikin shekara mai tsalle?
Shin akwai alamun da suka danganci bikin aure da shekara mai tsalle, yana yiwuwa ya auri wannan shekara? Mutane masu karfin zuciya za su ce yana da yiwu a yi aure a kowace shekara, amma mafi kyau ba a cikin shekara ba. Saboda auren, wanda ya ƙare a wannan shekara, zai ɓace. Amma wannan karfin ba shine wani abu da kimiyya ba ta tabbatar ba, ko da al'adar mutane ba ta goyi bayan shi ba.
Za ku ce daga zamanin d ¯ a a cikin tsalle ne masu wasa ba su je gidan amarya ba, saboda wannan shekara an yi la'akari da rashin tausayi? Haka ne, a cikin tsalle-tsalle a cikin gida na masu auren wasan kwaikwayo ba za a iya samun su ba, amma ba saboda mummunar shekara ba, amma saboda wannan shekarar masu wasan kwaikwayo sun tafi ga 'yan mata. Sai kawai a cikin shekara mai tsalle da amarya za ta iya aika wasan kwaikwayo zuwa ga ango, kuma bai iya ƙin ta ba, tare da 'yan kaɗan. Saboda haka tarihin ba ya tabbatar da rikice-rikicen game da auren rashin lafiya a cikin shekara mai tsalle.
Kuma ta yaya ikilisiya ke kallo, watakila ta haramta haɗin aure a cikin shekara ta tsalle? Bayan haka kuskuren - Ikilisiyar kiristanci ba wai kawai ya hana yin aure a cikin shekara mai tsalle ba, har ila yau yana wulakanta mutane masu rikitarwa a kowane hanyar da zai yiwu, yana daidaita su ga al'ummai. Kuma hakika, idan duk abin da yardar Allah ne, zai iya shafar bayyanar wata rana ta kwana a cikin shekara ɗaya?
Ya bayyana cewa jin tsoron yin aure a cikin shekara ta bana ba shi da ma'ana, duk abin da aka yi ba shi da wani abu ne na duhu kuma mai yiwuwa ba farin ciki ba tun zamanin kakanninmu. Mu, mutanen zamani, ba su ji tsoro, kuma ƙaunar gaskiya ba ta shawo kan dukkan matsalolin?