Ƙaunar soyayya

Ƙaunar soyayya ita ce dangantakar da ta dace da abin da mutum ya ɗauka a kan wani mutum mai muhimmanci a gare ta. Ƙaunar soyayya a cikin ilimin halayyar kwakwalwa kuma an kira dangantaka da juna.

Mutane da yawa suna rikitarwa ƙauna da ƙauna, amma suna da manyan bambance-bambance:

1. Idan mutane suna son, dukansu suna tare da baya. A game da jaraba da soyayya, a farkon dangantakar da kyau, amma baya - mugun, daga baya kuma tare kuma daban-daban.
2. Love yana kawo motsin zuciyarmu, mafi yawan lokutan mutum yana jin jituwa, amincewa, kwanciyar hankali. Dogaro yana ɗauke da korau. Mutumin ya damu: rashin tsaro, kishi, tsoro, damuwa, tashin hankali, shakku.
3. Ƙauna baya ƙin 'yancin ciki. A cikin ƙauna ƙauna, yanayin yana dogara da ayyukan, look, muryar mutumin da kuke ƙauna.
4. A cikin ƙauna, dukansu abokan tarayya suna aiki daidai. A cikin ƙaunar soyayya an gina dangantaka tsakanin ka'idojin gaba-gaba.
5. Ƙauna mai kyau ne kuma yana kaiwa ga nasara. Gudanarwa - yana da lalacewa, lafiyar mutum, yanayin kudi da kuma harkokin da ke aiki.
6. Ƙaunar gaskiya - halicci, ƙaunar ƙauna - hallaka.

Ƙaunar soyayya za ta iya ci gaba, tare da daidaituwa ɗaya na irin waɗannan abubuwa:

• abokin tarayya yana kusa da matasan matasa;
• wuce haddi na jima'i cikin jima'i;
• Mutumin yana da ƙoƙari ya ƙaunaci kuma ya ƙaunace shi.

Ƙaunar soyayya ta sa:

• rashin yarda da girma dangantaka;
• daya daga cikin dalilai na ƙaunar soyayya ga mata shine "rashin ƙauna" a cikin yara;
• rashin yarda ko rashin iya yin yanke shawara;
• tsoron tsoron kai;
• tsoro daga ƙiyayya;
• low kai girma;
• rashin iyalan iyaye ko mai kula da iyaye mai girma;
• shirye-shiryen yin biyayya;
• ƙuntatawa da rashin kuskure;
• hali don rage girman mutunci;
• gaban wani, wasu dogara;
• rashin fahimtar tsaro.

Ƙaunar soyayya - alamu

1. Babban alama na nuna soyayya shine ci gaba da jin zafi da wahala, koda lokacin da ƙaunatacce yake kusa.
2. Koyaushe ka tuna da abin ƙauna, kuma yana da damuwa. Kira da ba'a iya ganewa cikin kwakwalwarka ba.
3. Tabbataccen abokin tarayya, kuna da tsammanin sa gare shi.
4. Kuna rika samo uzuri gareshi kada kuyi shi, koda lokacin da laifinsa ba shi da kullun, ku da kanku kuna jin laifi.
5. Saboda rashin tausayi, ba za ku iya tantance bayanin ku ba.
6. Kuna damu game da saduwa da bukatun abokin tarayya fiye da naka.
7. Tsoro cewa ba ku cancanci ƙaunatacce, cewa ya fi ku.
8. Kuna ji tsoro, don yin halin kirki saboda tsoron cewa abokin tarayya zai bar ka nan da nan, saboda ba za ka yarda da maganin ka ba.

Idan daya daga cikin abokan tarayya yana son ya dogara da dogara, to dole ne ya sami abokin tarayya wanda zai kasance da dogara, amma akasin wannan shiri - abin dogara ne daga kaucewa, ana nuna shi ta hanyar haka:

1. Lokacin da ka lura cewa abokin tarayya yana so ya yi hulɗa da zumunta, za ka fara yin nesa da kanka kuma ka yi ƙoƙari ya ƙunshi matsalolin abokin tarayya don hana haɗin gwiwa.
2. A cikin dangantaka, kunji tsoron rasa 'yancinku.
3. Kuna tsammani cewa aure zai shafe kome, cewa ƙauna na gaske zai iya kasancewa a wasu nesa daga abokan.
4. Kuna ciyar da karin lokaci a kan abokai, bukatu da aiki, fiye da ƙaunatacce.
5. Mun tabbata cewa ba ku da abokin tarayya, kuma zai bar ku, wannan shine dalilin da ya sa kuka ji tsoro don fada cikin ƙauna, don kauce wa jin zafi lokacin da kuka rabu.

Mutanen da suka kirkiro ma'aurata ta hanyar irin ƙauna suna da irin waɗannan siffofi na zuciya, wanda aka bayyana a hanyoyi daban-daban. Duk da haka, duk abokan hulɗa suna da tsoro na al'ada da matsalolin tare da nuna gaskiya, wanda ya hana haɗin dangantaka mai kyau.

Gane dogara shine yanayin da ya dace don kawar da shi. Sanin yadda za a bambanta halin mutunci daga mai lafiya, za ka koyi koyaushe don haɗin gwiwa.