Bayyana ga mahaifi a ranar haihuwa

Abin ban mamaki kamar yadda ya kamata, yana da wuya a zabi kyauta ga mutane mafi kusa. Wannan kyauta ne ga mahaifiyata a ranar haihuwata za ta karya kaina. Mene ne za ta iya ba - tambayi abin da kyauta ta so don tunawa da ranar tunawa ko kokarin gwadawa? Duk ya dogara ne da irin mahaifiyarka - idan ta kasance tana magana ne game da sha'awarta, to, kai kanka za ka san abin da ta so a kyauta. Amma idan mahaifiyarka ta kasance mai laushi ko kuma yana son abubuwan ban mamaki, dole ne ka yi tunanin kanka kyauta da za ka iya ba wa mahaifiyar ranar haihuwarta. Da kyau, don sauƙaƙa sauƙaƙe a gare ku, ga wasu ra'ayoyi ne akan kyaututtuwar mahaifi.

Mene ne ya fi kyau in ba wa mahaifiyata?

Yin tunani game da abin da ya fi kyau don ba wa mahaifiyata, sau da yawa muna dogara da ranar - ranar tunawa ko ranar haihuwa. Don ranar tunawa muna ƙoƙarin zaɓar wani abu mafi iko kuma ya fi tsada. Amma wannan tsarin ba gaskiya ba ne - sau da yawa kyauta marar amfani don mahaifiyar shine mafi kyau, saboda kayi tsammani bukatunta, ko mamaki shine asali, ko kuma kawai saboda ka gabatar da kyautar. Don haka ya fi kyau kada ku kula da farashin kyauta, amma ga abubuwan da ke ciki. Ka tuna, watakila ta ce ta so a saya, amma ko ta yaya hannayensa ba su isa ba, ko ka san cewa an yi wa gilashin giya da aka fi so, wanda zai zama mai kyau maye gurbin. Idan irin waɗannan tunanin ba haka ba ne, to, zaku iya tunanin kyauta mai ban sha'awa ga mahaifi don ranar haihuwarta. Yi tunani game da wadannan kyauta masu kyauta.

1. Shafin hoto, amma ba mai sauƙi ba, amma tare da hotuna da suka fi so. Kowace hoto za a iya bayar da bayani, sharhi, da kyau, ana iya yi wa kansa hoton. Hakanan zaka iya kwafe kundin zuwa faifai. Bari mahaifiyata ta iya iya ganin hotuna akan kwamfutar.
2. Ranar haihuwar, wadda aka yi bikin a gida, ba shakka wani biki, amma kuma babban nauyi ga yarinyar ranar haihuwar - kuma dole ne ka shirya kanka domin shirya wasu kayan dadi. Taimaka wa mahaifiyarka, ka dauki rassan dafa, bari abincin abincin ya zama kyautarta. Babban abu ba shine ba da izini ga wanda ya zama mummunar bikin ba a cikin matsala na shirya biki.
3. Idan mahaifiyarka tana son dabbobin, amma har sai ka sami kaya ba shi da kuskure, ba shi da ita. Kuma hakika, tare da kyautar kyauta kana buƙatar ba duk kayan haɗi da abinci masu dacewa.
4. Kuna iya hayan fim din kyauta ga uwar ku. Kuma 'yan wasan kwaikwayo za su kasance abokai da dangi, a cikin aikin zasu gaya wa yarinyar haihuwar game da waɗannan tunanin (mafi kyau, ba shakka) da suke hade da ita. Babban matsala shi ne ka daina yin shiru game da kyautar har zuwa lokacin bikin, don haka bidiyo ya zama mamaki.
5. Mahaifiyarka tana da sha'awar kiɗa, kuma idan ta ji waƙa na matashi, to, hawaye suna fitowa a idanunsu? Ka ba ta CD tare da waƙoƙin da kake so. Zaku iya saya shi a matsayin tarin shirye-shirye, kuma ku sanya wannan kyauta ga maman da hannunku. Don dalilai masu ma'ana, zaɓi na biyu shine mafi mahimmanci. Kuma a kan diski kanta zaka iya sanya hoto na mahaifiyarka, sannan ka yi lakabi, kamar katin gaisuwa.
6. Idan mahaifiyarka ba ta damu da kayan ado ba, ka ba ta. Kawai yin ado na sirri, tambayi mai ɗaukar hoto don sakawa cikin cikin samfurin wata kalma da mahaifiyarka ta ɗauki kalma ko burin buƙatar ranar haihuwa.

Wanne furanni don ba wa mahaifiyata?

Kowane mutum ya san cewa kyauta bai zama mahimmanci ba, amma kuma yadda zaka yanke shawarar yin hakan. Mahaifiyarka, hakika, za ta ji daɗi da kalmomin da za ka gabatar, kamar kyauta mai kyauta, amma kada ka manta da furanni. Idan mahaifiyarka tana da furanni wanda ta ke da sha'awar musamman, duk abu mai sauƙi ne, ba ta daidai da su ba. Idan babu zabi na musamman, za a iya jagorantar mutum ta hanyar la'akari da haka:

• 'yan kasuwa a yau da kullum ba su da isasshen haske da farin ciki, saboda haka sukan zabi jinsin furanni, lilies da launin rawaya;
• Mata masu ƙaunar dabi'a za su yi farin ciki da kyamarori, irises, gerberas da masara;
• Uwayen gida yawanci ba sha'aninsu dabam ga tulips;
• masoyan wasanni za su sami bouquets na wardi, orchids ko lilies a yabo zuwa ga slim adadi;
• Ladies na ra'ayin ra'ayin mazan jiya zasu fi son lambun lambun lambu, chrysanthemums da gerberas;
• Da kyau, mutanen kirki suna so su karba bishiyoyi na wardi tare da tsayi da furanni.