Hoto mai saukowa

Wani sauraron da ba shi da hankali ya zama na musamman game da kalmomin mai magana, inda mai sauraro yake shiru, yana mai da hankali sosai kuma baya yin sharhi game da jawabin da ya ji. A cikin ƙananan ƙwayoyin, yana yiwuwa don ƙara kalma wanda bai ɗauki kima ba. Jigon rashin sauraron tunani ba daidai ba ne don la'akari, amma kawai don karbar abin da mai magana ya faɗa.

Dokokin yin sauraro

Wannan fasaha yana buƙatar bin bin wasu dokoki, ba tare da wani sauraron da ba shi da hankali ba zai kasa. Akwai 'yan kaɗan:

1. Cikakken cikakken duk wani tsangwama tare da jawabin mai magana.
2. Kuskuren tantance lokacin da yake fahimtar kalmomin da mai magana ya fada.
3. Gudanar da hankalinka daidai akan kalmomin mai shiga tsakani, kuma ba bisa hukuntanka da tunani game da kalmominsa ba.

Rashin hankali da ba da tunani ba yana da muhimmiyar bambanci: idan a farkon yanayin shine fahimtar mutum na kalmomin mutane wanda aka karfafa, to, a cikin akwati na biyu dole ne ya rage basirar mutum.

Yaushe ne fasaha na sauraron sauraron ba zai zo ba?

Yawancin lokaci, mai haɗaka yana ƙoƙarin gaggauta fitar da tunaninsu, ji da jin dadi game da abin da suka ji, amma ba kullum yana dace ba. Alal misali, a cikin dukan shawarwari, idan yana da mahimmanci a fahimci abin da mutum yake so, shi ne sauraron sauraron tunani wanda zai ba ka damar fahimtar mahawarar da sauri.

Idan akwai wani tashin hankali a cikin tattaunawar, ana fuskantar tambayoyi masu zafi, yana da muhimmanci a bar mutum yayi magana, kuma kada kuyi kokarin shawo kan mutumin da ya dace da kansa nan da nan. Wannan hanya ce da za ta taimaka wajen magance matsaloli, maimakon ƙirƙirar sababbin. Idan ka ga cewa mutum yana so ya bayyana wasu motsin zuciyarka, amma bai san inda zai fara ba, taimake shi da tambaya mai dacewa: Shin yana damun ku? "Ko irin wannan. Bayan haka, ya kamata ka yi amfani da hanyar sauraro mai saurin hankali, wanda zai ba mutumin damar kwantar da hankali ya gaya maka game da abin da yake so ya fada.

Hakika, idan akwai tattaunawa ko jayayya, wannan hanya ba daidai ba ne. A kowane irin ma'amala da kasuwanci, ba a taɓa yin amfani da sauraron ba tare da tunani ba, saboda a cikin wannan yanayin ana fuskantar fuskantar ɗawainiya daban-daban. Sau da yawa ana sauraron sauraron marar hankali ba tare da yin amfani da shi ba kamar yadda zanen dutse ya zama babbar fasaha kamar sauraron sauraron da za a iya amfani dashi a yanayi mai yawa kuma yakan bada sakamako mai kyau.