Idan a baya, bambancin da yake da shekarun yana da mahimmanci, to, yanzu dabi'un dabi'un suna ba da damar jin dadi a zaɓar abokin tarayya. Sabili da haka, a cikin zamani na zamani, mace mai girma da kuma ƙaunatacciyar ƙaƙƙarfan ƙaƙƙarfan samari ne.
Me yasa mata suke neman matasa masoya?
Kamar yadda ka sani, lalatawar mace ta mace tana da shekaru 30 zuwa 30, lokacin da maza suna wannan lokaci daga kimanin 20 zuwa 30. Binciken matasa masoya, mata, musamman matan aure, kokarin gwada yiwuwar su kuma samun jin damuwarsu daga zumunci. Bugu da ƙari, a cikin irin wannan ƙaƙawar ga mace akwai wasu ƙananan ƙananan:
- Saduna;
- yancin kai;
- ji na matasa na biyu;
- sadarwa mai ban sha'awa, fadada hangen nesa na duniya ;
- da damar yin jariri lafiya;
- kara girman kai;
- damar fara rayuwa daga karce.
Yana da ban sha'awa cewa, bisa ga sakamakon bincike na zamantakewa, mata, wanda masoyansu kimanin shekaru 10 ne, sun fi son bin kansu, don shiga cikin wasanni.
Yaya za a samu da kuma adana ƙaunataccen matashi?
Yawancin samari sunyi tunanin cewa mata masu girma sun fi dacewa ga 'yan uwansu, musamman ma a cikin jima'i. Yana da muhimmanci a kula da irin wannan lokacin:
- Koyaushe kayi kyau;
- kula da adana matasa da sha'awa;
- kula da siffarsa;
- Biyan abubuwan da suka faru a duniya na fiction, fina-finai da kiɗa;
- zama na zamani a cikin ka'idodin dabi'a;
- kada ku ji tsoro na farko don fara hira kuma ku koyi flirt ;
- jin kwantar da hankali a gado.
Yana da sauƙin ci gaba da saurayi, babban abu shi ne cewa yana da ban sha'awa da sauƙi a gare ku. Saboda haka, babu wani hali da ya kamata ka yi kamar kai - mahaifiyarsa, halayyar kirki da kuma amfani mai amfani daga kyakkyawan kwarewar rayuwa ya kamata a bar shi. Bugu da ƙari, idan kuna da wata ƙaunar auren aure, ba ku bukatar ku tilasta shi ya bar iyali. Wani mutum a kowane lokaci yana son yin yanke shawara na mutuntaka, kuma kowane matsa lamba a kan shi zai ƙara haɓaka rabuwa.
"Mai ƙauna ya fi ƙanƙana" - fursunoni
Hakika, idan mai ƙaunarka yana da ƙananan ƙarami - har shekaru 10 ko fiye, akwai magungunan ƙananan ga tambayoyin:
- yanke hukuncin jama'a;
- rashin fahimta da dangi da ma'aikata;
- kishi na budurwa;
- ra'ayoyi daban-daban game da rayuwa da dabi'u;
- babu dangantaka mai tsanani;
- rashin lafiyar kudi na wani saurayi.
Amma a ƙarshe, yana da wuya a yanke shawara. Babu wani abu mai kyau a duniya da za'a iya kwatanta da farin ciki a rayuwarka. Kuma ko ta yaya aka gina shi.