Mene ne "mutum mai juriya" yake nufi?

Sau nawa kuke fuskanci halin kirki na wasu? Mutumin mai haƙuri yana da farin ciki a kowane lokaci, kafin mutumin ya so ya "cire masa hat" saboda gaskiyar ta ta halin ta kuma ya ce: "Na gode da ra'ayinku da mutunta 'yancin tunani, sabili da haka, zan sa ku aiki matsayi na rayuwa ".

Formation na hankali sani

Idan muka yi magana game da asalin rinjaye masu haƙuri a Turai ta Yammacin Turai, dalilin hakan shi ne ilimin addini, tasiri, wato alamar Dokar Nantes. Godiya ga wannan doka, Katolika da Furotesta sun zama daidai a hakkoki, dukansu game da shiga makarantun ilimi da kuma samun likita.

Idan muka yi la'akari da asalin hali mai haƙuri a kan misalin mutum ɗaya, to, ra'ayoyin farko game da nagarta da mummuna, ka'idodin halin kirki a gaba ɗaya an kafa har ma a makarantar makaranta. Tsayawa daga wannan, bayan shekaru, a cikin balagagge yana da wuya a canza kowane hali da ra'ayoyin rayuwa.

Alamun hali mai juriya

1. Sanin kai, fahimtar dalili na aikin kansa. Wadannan mutane sunyi nazari akan ƙarfinsu da rashin ƙarfi. Lokacin da akwai matsalolin, ba su damu game da zarge-zarge a wasu irin waɗannan ba. Suna da'awar kula da kansu da matsananciyar damuwa. Ya kamata mu lura cewa a cikin kowane mutum akwai "I-ideal" (yadda kuke son zama) da kuma "I-real" (kun kasance a wannan lokacin). Saboda haka, ga mutum mai haƙuri a tsakanin waɗannan ra'ayoyin biyu akwai bambanci mai yawa, wanda ke nufin cewa su, sau da yawa, ba daidai ba ne.
2. Wadannan irin abubuwan da ke tattare da tsaro, tsaro. Ba su so su kauce wa jama'a, su gudu daga gare ta.
3. Game da alhakin, mutane masu haƙuri basu canja shi ga wasu.
4. Sun yi la'akari da duniyar da ke kewaye da su a cikin launi daban-daban, ba rarraba mutane cikin mai kyau da mara kyau ba.
5. Haƙƙin kai kanka, daidaitawa, da farko, ga kanka, duka a cikin tunani da aiki.
6. Mutumin kirki yana iya jin halin ruhaniya na wani. Ba wani abu ba ne ga irin wannan abu kamar tausayi .
7. Yi wasa da kanka? Tare da sauƙi. Zai sami kuskure a cikin kansa kuma dole ya yi dariya da shi, ya tabbatar da kansa cewa zai sami hanyar kawar da wannan kuskure.