Tsarin aure shine farkon shekaru biyu na tunawa da ƙauna biyu masu ƙauna, yana nufin cewa shekaru goma ne tun daga ranar da mutane biyu suka haɗa hanyarsu ta hanyar rayuwa. Idan kana duban baya, miji da matar za su iya nazarin wannan shekarun rayuwarsu - akwai abun da za su tuna, abin da za a kimanta, fahimta. A cewar kididdigar, wata ma'aurata da suka zauna tare har tsawon shekaru goma, ba zai yiwu su saki ba. Wannan bikin aure ana kiranta "bikin aure na launin ruwan hoda", kyauta don bikin ana ganin ya dace - ana ba da sababbin sharadi ga wariyar launin fata, gado da gado mai dadi da ... kayan aiki na pewter!
Ƙungiyar hutu
Bayan shekaru nawa da auren bikin aure, kun rigaya sani, yanzu yanzu lokaci ya yi don gano yadda za a tsara wannan bikin daidai. Yana da muhimmanci cewa dukan rana yana da mahimmanci ga "sabon auren" - miji ya kamata ya bar wani abin ɗamara na wardi na marmari a kan matashin kai, kusa da matar barci. Yawan wardi a cikin wani bouquet zai iya zama daban-daban, babban abu shine cewa akwai akalla goma daga cikinsu.
Yin bikin wannan rana mai girma ya kamata ya kasance mai kira - gayyaci duk waɗanda suke cikin ma'aurata a bikin aure, ko a kalla mafi kusa da baƙi. Kasancewa da mai shaida da marubutawa wajibi ne. Kowane baƙo ya zo da shi ja-wardi - furanni na fure a ƙarshen maraice "newweds" za su iya ba da gado na aure. Har ila yau, akwai al'ada mai ban sha'awa game da bikin bikin bikin aure: idan da baƙi da masu cin zarafin sun yi daidai, za su iya daukar nauyin cokali a cikin aljihunan, maballin ko belts!
Zuwa gadon abincin yana karɓa don hidima tsuntsaye mai laushi ko wasa a ƙarƙashin ruwan hoda mai laushi, tare da ruwan inabi mai kyau, da kuma abubuwan da ke da yawa. Babban mahimman batun yin tattaunawa yana tunawa da bikin aure. Har ila yau, a lokacin bikin bikin auren, yana da kyau don rawa sosai. Ma'aurata da maraice a wannan maraice ya kamata a yanka wani shunin ja a cikin rabi kuma a rufe ɗayanta a wuyan hannu. An yi imani cewa bayan irin wannan al'ada shekaru goma na gaba zasu kasance "rai a cikin ruhu." Ta gaba, ba bikin aure na farko ba, dole ne sabon auren ya yi ado tare da halayen irin su fure-fure, cakulan da sharan.
Mene ne suke ba don bikin auren aure?
Kuna iya ba da wani abu a wannan hutun, babban abu shi ne cewa kyautai suna nuna halin jin dadi da kuma dangantaka mai kyau na miji da matar. Mutane da yawa sun gaskata cewa kyauta mai kyau zai iya zama wani abu, amma wannan kuskure ne. Abubuwan da aka zalunta, kyawawan kayan ado, tsohuwar vases da tebots - wannan kyauta ne ya kamata a yi bikin aure. Kamar yadda aka riga aka ambata a sama, zane-zane na jan wardi suna da muhimmanci. Har ila yau, ya dace da kayan gida wanda ake bukata a cikin gida, jan ko ruwan hoda - gadajewa, kayan ado na siliki, duk abin da ke hade da wardi - tausa, kayan zafi. Gifts, wanda aka musayar sabonweds, ya kamata tsada, bayan duk
Ma'aurata da yawa a kasashe daban-daban na duniya sun yarda cewa tsawon shekaru goma na rayuwar iyali dole ne a shirya wani abu kamar haka - yi tsalle tare da sutura, tafiyar tafiya mai mahimmanci, da kuma irin wannan ruhu. Alal misali, daya daga cikin shahararren tauraron dan Adam David da Victoria Beckham a yanzu suna "gudu" a yau daga kowa da kowa a duniya - a tsibirin tsibirin!
Sai dai namiji da matar da suka yi farin ciki har shekaru goma ya kamata su yanke shawara game da yadda suke so su yi bikin haɗin hutu tare - al'ada ko musamman. Babban abu shi ne cewa yana da farin ciki kuma yana jin daɗi.