Halin da mahaifiyarta ke ciki shine batun da ya dace saboda abubuwan da suka shafi labarai, fina-finai da labarun daga matayen mata. Hakan ya faru, har ya zuwa yanzu kafin tashin hankali ba ya cutar da mata ga rubutun tallace-tallacen "dauki ayyukan da ke cikin haɗari." Amma duk wannan zai iya, idan ba za a kauce masa ba, akalla rage girman sakamakon sadarwa. Bugu da ƙari, karanta kuma a yi wahayi zuwa gare mu game da shawararmu game da yadda za a kawar da surukarka. Yi la'akari!
1. Idan ba ku da iyayen mahaifi a yanzu, amma kuna da gaggawa don tattaunawa game da makomar ku tare da masu aminci - ku kasance cikakkiyar tsabta a cikin dangantaka bayan yin aure, a cikin ku da kuma ayyukansa, da kuma muhimmancin "baƙi" a cikin gidan ku: wanene yancin, iko da, mafi mahimmanci, inda layin yake. Bayan amincewa da gaba, za ku guje wa baƙin ciki, abin kunya, hawaye da yiwuwar saki.
2. Lokacin da tambaya game da yadda za a kauce wa surukar mahaifiyar ba ta kasance ba, amma mafarki mai ban tsoro ne, to lallai mijinki ya zama babban mawallafi. Idan ba ku da lokaci, "mahaifiyarsa" za ta kai shi a gefensa. Shirya wata magana ta gaskiya kuma ya tambaye shi ya amsa wasu tambayoyi:
- wanda ke da alhakin kare lafiyar iyalinka - kai ne da mijinki ko mahaifiyarka?
- Wanene farka a gidanka - kai ko mahaifiyarsa?
- Wadanne hakkoki ne mahaifiyarki ta kasance a gidanka, shin ikonta ya wuce bayan kyautai ga jikokinta da kuma tarurruka a cikin yamma, ga rayuwarka da kuma dangantaka ?
- menene ma'anar hakan ya ba ka damar aiki, domin ya sanya dukkan maki a sama da "kuma" tare da surukarta?
Babu amfani a tambayoyin waɗannan tambayoyin idan kun zauna tare da uwarsa a gidanta. Ka fahimci, mace a kowane zamani ya kasance mace, wanda ke kare yankin. Tana da kyau kada ya bar ka a cikin ɗakunan abinci, tsaftace ɗakinta, nazarinsa da kuma zarga abinda ke ciki, ba maka shawara kawai ba, amma umarni da umarni, da sauransu a cikin wannan ruhu ... Sai kawai a yankinka kake da hakkin tare da ita yãƙi, kawai inda ta kasance baƙo, kuma ba mai fargaji mai farfadowa ba. A ƙarƙashin rufin gida guda biyu ba a wanzu ba.