Halin jima'i ko da yaushe ya kasance, kuma tabbas zai kasance kullum, mafi yawan abin da aka tattauna, kuma babu wani abu mai ban mamaki game da shi - tsarin yana da matukar zafi. Ba'a bayyana ba ne kawai burin mutane (musamman ma waɗannan mata masu bambanta) duk suna saka ɗakunan da kuma kafa ka'idodi ga kowane mai baƙin ciki yayin wasan jima'i. Ɗaya daga cikin tambayoyin masu ban sha'awa shine: "Yaya tsawon lokacin da za a yi jima'i da namiji da mace"? Kuma bambance-bambance na wannan batu shi ne cewa ba zai iya yiwuwa ya dace da halaye ɗaya daga mutum ba ga kowane misali, tun da yake yin la'akari da jima'i kawai daga ra'ayi na ilimin lissafi ba daidai ba ne, tun da nasarar wannan aikin da kuma amfanin daga gare ta ya dogara ne akan wasu dalilai daban-daban. Amma idan ka taba kawai sashin jiki na batun, to sai ka faɗi yadda ake bukata don yin jima'i, watakila, kawai biyayyar bin ka'idodin bai dace ba.
Yaya ya kamata ka yi jima'i da namiji da mace?
Ba asiri ba ne cewa yawancin lambobin sadarwar jima'i na dogara ne akan ƙaddamar da hormonal jima'i, wanda ya bambanta ga kowane mutum. Babban tasiri akan wannan alamar ita ce wurin zama. An dade daɗewa cewa Southerners sun fi halin kirki fiye da mutanen da suka saba da duk "jin dadi" na masu sanyi. Kuma, ba shakka, shekarun ba za a iya watsi da ko dai - mazan mutum ba, da ƙananan kwayoyin jima'i da jikin mutum ke haifarwa, da kuma rashin yin aikin jima'i mutum. Wannan ita ce hanya ta ƙarshe ta jagorancin masu jima'i, ta amsa tambayoyin tsawon lokaci a mako kana buƙatar yin jima'i. Anan su ne jagororin da suke ba wa duk masu ban sha'awa:
- 20-25 shekaru - sau hudu a mako;
- Shekaru 25-30 - sau uku a mako;
- Shekaru 30-40 - sau 2 a mako;
- bayan shekaru 45 - akalla sau ɗaya a mako.
Ya kamata a lura cewa waɗannan ka'idodin sun fi dacewa da mazaunin maza, amma wannan shi ne kawai saboda har kwanan nan ba wanda ya yi tunanin yadda yarinyar take bukata. An hade da ra'ayi cewa lafiyar maza ne kadai ya danganta da halayen jima'i , kuma mata suna iya sarrafawa ba tare da shi ba har tsawon shekaru ba tare da cin zarafin lafiyarsu ba. Amma a kwanan nan, yawancin lokaci ana magana game da haɗuwa da cututtuka na gynecological sphere tare da rayuwan jima'i ba bisa ka'ida ba . Saboda haka, jima'i yana da mahimmanci ga ma'aurata, amma sau nawa ya kamata ya faru ne kawai akan buƙatarka, ba a kan kididdiga ba.