Mene ne alamun hali ke nuna?
Hanyoyin da suka fi dacewa da halayyar yara sun haɗa da:
- Ba za a iya yin cikakken bayani tare da malamai, iyaye, wasu manya ba, rashin isasshen amsa ga ayyukansu;
- rikice rikice tare da takwarorinsu;
- janyewa cikin kawunansu, rufewa saboda sakamakon jin dadi mai zurfin ciki;
- rashin zalunci ko tashin hankali;
- matsalolin horo (ga yara na makaranta, gyaran irin wannan rikici ya zama mahimmanci, in ba haka ba zai yiwu a manta game da takardar shaidar da maki mai kyau);
- low girman kai, dogara ga wasu;
- da bincika 'yanci ta hanyar kin amincewa da ka'idojin dabi'u na kullum;
- disorganization.
Ta yaya hali yaron ya gyara?
Sau da yawa yaro tare da kalmominsa da ayyukansa yana neman taimako daga manya. Harkokin Psychological ga yara da ciwon halayen haɗaka sun hada da:
- Samar da kyakkyawar hali a cikin sadarwa. Yaro ya bukaci soyayya da fahimta, don haka aikin mai ilimin kimiyya shine ya ga abubuwan da ya dace, abin da yake da karfi, kuma ya koyi saurare da jin shi.
- Gudanar da gwaje-gwaje da amincewa da tambayoyi yana da mahimmanci don ƙayyade ainihin abin da taimako ga yara da ciwon halayen zai tabbatar da tasiri a cikin wannan yanayin.
- Yi horo na musamman domin matasa masu koyi su koyi ganewa da kuma gyara tunaninsa da kuma ji. Alal misali, wannan: mahalarta zauna a cikin da'irar kuma kowane ɗayan suna cewa:
"Idan na juya cikin littafi, zan kasance ... (ƙamus, mujallar, da dai sauransu)", "Idan na zama abincin, zan kasance ...", da dai sauransu. An samu sakamako masu kyau ta hanyar "Magic Shop" , inda masu halartar horarwa suka yi musayar ra'ayoyin kansu kamar fushi, rashin tausayi, da fushi ga masu kyau irin su kulawa, haƙuri, alheri, da dai sauransu. - Yana da kyau a tsara tsarin kula da cututtuka na yara a makarantar sakandaren tare da taimakon tashar talabijin, inda yaron ya sami dama ya bayyana kansa tare da wani daga cikin haruffa, ko kuma aikin likita, lokacin da yaro ya nuna motsin zuciyarsa.