Yaya tsawon lokacin da kuka je filin wasa? Idan yanzu ka dubi cikin sandbox, zai zama da wuya a yanke shawara wanda yake tafiya tare da yaro: mahaifiyarsa, 'yar'uwa ko kaka. Haka ne, wannan abu ne mai tsanani kuma ba tare da wata alamar wasa ba. Idan fiye da shekaru goma sha biyu da suka wuce, mata sun haifa a kimanin shekarun nan, yanzu sun kai shekaru 14, shekaru 34, kuma wani lokaci ma daga baya. Wannan yana hade da wasu sake fasalin halayyar matan zamani, banda haka, sau da yawa halin da ake ciki a kasar ya nuna shekarun da za a haifi mace, domin ba kullum amfanin zamantakewa ya isa ba ko da yafi dacewa.
Shekaru don haihuwar jariri na farko
Daidai ne, ana iya faɗi cewa zamanin ilimin lissafi da tunani don haihuwar ɗan fari ya bambanta da muhimmanci. Akwai dalilai masu yawa waɗanda kawai kawai kuna bukatar mu yi la'akari kafin ku yanke shawara don a haifi jariri. Idan wata mace ta kasance a shirye don haihuwar jariri a cikin shekaru ashirin da ashirin, to, tunani yana "ƙara" tsawon lokaci kuma saurin hankali ya zo sau da yawa zuwa shekaru 30. Saboda haka, yawan shekarun haihuwa na kusa da shekaru 28 zuwa 30. Me ya sa mutane da yawa sun jinkirta ciki don baya?
- Ci gaban aikin . Bayan kafawar, yawancin ci gaba na aiki ya yi daidai ne kawai don tsawon shekaru 25-30, ta wannan lokacin mace ta fahimci cewa "agogo yana ticking", amma mutane da yawa ba su daina barin aikin a wannan mataki.
- Gidajen gidaje . A duk lokacin da shekarun ka yanke shawarar haihuwa, yaron yana bukatar ba kawai don jimre ba, amma kuma don tabbatar da shi a cikin yanayin da ya dace na rayuwa. Sabili da haka, ga mutane da yawa, yana da mahimmanci kada a haifi yara cikin shekaru, amma yadda za a samar da kansu da kuma yaro tare da gidaje.
- Ingancin ilimin kimiyya ba tare da wani shiri ba. 'Yan matan da suke kulawa da lafiyarsu suna da masaniya na shekarun da suka wajaba a haifi mace, amma mutane kadan suna cikin hanzari don yin hakan a lokaci. Gaskiyar ita ce, shiri na zuciya zai iya zowa a cikin shekaru 20 zuwa 30, kuma a cikin duniya na babban dama, lokacin da za ku iya karatu da tafiya, ku yi magana da mutane da dama a kasashe daban-daban kuma ku koyi abubuwa da yawa, akwai 'yan mata da suka yarda da 25 shekaru don kulle kansu daga bango huɗu da kuma kewaye dutsen dutse da kwalabe.
- Ba da amfani. Wani lokaci mace tana shirye don haihuwar yaron yana da shekaru 20, amma matsalar ta warware shekaru 30 da nufinta.
Shekaru nawa wajibi ne a haifi haihuwa?
Idan ka yanke shawara cewa lokacin haihuwar ɗan fari bai faru ba kafin shekaru 30, kana buƙatar tuna da jerin abubuwan haɗari waɗanda za su jira maka:
- Rashin tsammanin ciki . Gaskiyar ita ce ba kawai ku tsufa ba, amma qwaiku - da yawa daga cikinsu bayan shekaru 30 an gano su ta hanyar jiki, don haka jikin ya yi ƙoƙarin kawar da shi. Rashin barazanar rashin fitarwa yana ƙaruwa zuwa 30%.
- Haihuwar tagwaye. Idan ka yi tunanin cewa ba shi da ma'anar shekarun da ka haifa, idan lafiyarka ba ta damu ba, ka kasance a shirye don bayyanar jariri biyu a yanzu. Jikin jiki yana neman ƙoƙarin kamawa kuma yana da shekaru 30-35 wanda zai iya yiwuwa yiwuwar zubar da tagwaye ya zo. Ko da yake yana da farin ciki guda biyu, amma har ma babban nauyin jiki ne.
- Matsaloli tare da mahaifa. Haɗarin rashin isassun ƙwayar cuta (babba ta tsufa tayi kafin tayin ya ci gaba) yana da kyau ko babba ba a da kyau ya wakilta (kamar yadda ya kange cervix kuma ya hana ci gaban yanayin haihuwa).
- Hormonal kasawa cikin jiki.
- "Bouquet" na cututtuka. A lokacin da aka girma, mace tana gabatowa ciki tare da cututtukan zuciya da dama, matsaloli na koda, sau da yawa yawan sukarin jini, duk wannan yana da tasiri a kan hali.
- Idan ka yanke shawarar shekarun da za a haihu, ka yi tunanin ba kawai game da ciki ba, amma kuma game da haihuwa. Sassan jima'i na ƙarshe sun rasa nauyin haɓaka da kuma iyawar mahaifa don haifar da ƙwaya, amma yiwuwar rashin aiki da raguwa da dama, da bambanci, yana ƙaruwa.