Wani irin ƙauna?

Abin baƙin cikin shine, rayuwar ba koyaushe ba ne da masaniya, kuma muna son shi a hanyoyi daban-daban, don haka bari mu yi kokarin gano irin irin ƙaunar da yake.

Daga cikinmu babu mutane da suke da irin wannan, wanda ke nufin cewa kowa yana ganin ƙauna a hanyar su.

1. Love shi ne al'ada. Mutane da yawa sun san ƙauna, wanda a hanyoyi da yawa ba soyayya ba ne. Abokan da suke zaune tare, kuma, watakila, ba su da zurfin jin dadi, sukan yi amfani da juna: wani lokaci - dukansu, wani lokaci - ɗaya daga cikin abokan. Ba su rabu da zurfin jin dadi , amma, mafi mahimmanci, tsoron hasara. Mene ne suke jin tsoron rasa? Wani - kudi da ta'aziyya; wani - hankali na zaman lafiya da kwanciyar hankali, kuma wani yana jin tsoro na rashin kaiwa ko yanke hukunci ga dangi da abokai. Akwai ƙauna-ƙauna.
2. Akwai wani irin ƙauna - wannan shine hidima , lokacin, don farin ciki, alheri, aiki mai nasara na daya, abokin tarayya na shirye ya sanya makomarsa akan bagaden rai. Wani nau'i na ƙauna yana kusa da shi: soyayya shine bauta.
3. An san soyayya da kanka-hadaya . Wannan babban mataki ne na dangantaka, lokacin da za a yi farin ciki, har ma da rayuwar ɗayansu, ɗayan yana shirye ya miƙa rayukansu.

Menene jinin kauna?

Gwargwadon hankali shine faɗakarwa: daga jin daɗin farin cikin da farin ciki na gaba da wahala da ƙeta.

Bari mu fara tare da karshen. Kamar alama cewa ƙauna da ƙiyayya suna da rikitarwa, amma daidai har sai mun tuna da wannan daga wani tunani ga wani - mataki daya kawai.

Amma gameda ma'anarta, yana da nauyin inuwa kuma yanayin da ya haifar ya ƙaddara shi: "Na rasa ku, nan da nan", ko kuma "Ya bar ni, kuma ban san yadda za a rayu" ba, da dai sauransu.

Yana da kyau a lokacin da dangantaka tsakanin abokan tarayya aka gina a kan girmamawa da kuma haifar da farin cikin juna. Bugu da} ari, kowane abu mai ban sha'awa yana jin dadin ku da kuma cewa kuna cikin wannan duniyar, wannan shine wanda kuke rayuwa. Duk da haka, ba a rarrabe ba daga damuwa game da wanda yake ƙaunatacce, kusa kuma ƙaunatacce.

Ƙauna ba ta da tabbas ba tare da amincewa ba, wanda yana da sauki a rasa, amma wuya a sake dawowa. Ƙin yarda ya haifar da ƙaddarar da wuya - kishi, wanda yake ƙonewa daga cikin aboki biyu kuma ya shafe rayukansu.

Love ba shiru ba, yana da "harsunansu", amma kowannensu yayi magana da nasu ko ma wasu.

Sun faɗi cewa don sanin dukkanin hanyoyi na wannan jiha, wajibi ne a fahimci abin da ma'aurata masu auna suke amfani da su guda biyar.

Bari muyi magana a cikin harshen ƙauna

Menene wadannan harsunan da suke son magana?

Ga wasu, waɗannan kalmomin ƙarfafawa ne da suke bukata. Ga wasu, wannan shi ne hankali da ba'a damu da cewa abokin tarayya yana buƙatar wani. A hanyar, mata zasu iya magana a cikin wannan harshe. Ya kuma fahimci wadannan - harshen kyauta. Abin farin, akwai wani: shi ne harshe na taimako, kula, goyon baya. Kyakkyawan harshe!

Kuma mafi girman harshe shine hulɗar jiki, lokacin da abokan hulɗa biyu suka rabu da juna, suna haɗuwa zuwa ɗaya da magana daya harshe - sha'awar da ƙauna.

Kuna son na!

A cikin 'yan shekarun nan, idan ana son soyayya, yawanci sukan zance game da yadda namiji ya nuna ƙaunarsa ga uwargijinta, amma karfi mai karfi ba zai cutar da ya fahimci irin ƙauna ga mutum ba.

Gane shi ba haka ba ne mai wuya. A cikin ƙauna yarinyar ta yi ƙoƙarin sakawa, dafa, saya, abin da yarinya yake so. Ba ta rasa damar da za ta yaba da hankali, ƙarfinsa, kwarewa, kwarewar abokin tarayya, juya zuwa gareshi don shawara, an dauke shi da ra'ayi da dandano.

An san asalin wannan jinin ta hanyar sanin abin da alamun soyayya suke. Daga cikin su: ƙaddamar da ƙaunatacciyar ƙaunatacciyar ƙaunataccena (ƙaunataccen ƙauna), marmarin zama tare a kowane lokaci, da kuma warware matsalolin da suke tattare tare; da shirye-shirye don bi ƙaunatacciyar ƙauna zuwa iyakar duniya da jin tsoro na rasa shi; kafirci da cewa soyayya na iya zama "ba har abada ba".

Kauna kuma ka tuna cewa mai taimako mafi muhimmanci a soyayya shi ne zuciyarka.