Yawancin lokaci idan kun cika siffofin daban-daban da farko a shafin yanar gizonku a shafi, kuna buƙatar cika filin wasa. Shafukan yana bada zaɓi uku: hetero-, bi- da homo-. Hotoci yana nufin zabar wakili na jinsi daya a matsayin abokin tarayya.
Hoto na Hidima - yadda za a fahimci wannan?
Duk da cewa cewa kowace shekara yawan yawan ma'aurata na haɓaka, yawancin mutane a duniya sune namiji ne. Suna shawo kan janyo hankulan su, da motsa jiki da kuma jima'i ga jima'i.
Don fahimtar ma'anarsa, ilimin haɗin gwiwar, masana kimiyya a sassa daban daban na duniya sun gudanar da bincike. Wannan batu na farko da Richard Kraft-Ebing ya taɓa. Masanin kimiyya ya gabatar da tsammanin cewa jima'i shine wani nau'i ne na rayayyun halittu, tun da yake shi ne wanda ya bawa damar ci gaba da jigilar. Nazarin wani masanin kimiyya Kinsey ya yarda da jima'i da za a raba su cikin subtypes.
Yawancin masana kimiyya, fahimtar ma'anar bambancin ra'ayi, suna jayayya cewa an kwantar da shi a cikin mutum a matakin kwayoyin halitta, amma akwai wani fasali wanda aka kafa a yayin rayuwa, wato a cikin tsarin ilimi.
Kamar yadda aka riga aka ambata, ban da namiji daidaitacce, akwai bi- da 'yan luwadi. Bari muyi Magana game da wannan dalla-dalla:
- Bisexuality wani zance ne wanda yake nuna kasancewar janyo hankalin, ga mutum da kuma mace.
- Luwaɗanci shine jagoranci wanda ke tsammanin wanzuwar jin dadi ga mutane na jima'i.
Yau, batun batun fahimtar wasu jinsin jima'i ba tare da ma'aurata ba ne. A wasu ƙasashe, alal misali, a Amurka, har ma da yin rajistar auren jinsi guda an yarda. Matsayin da ba a cikin Rasha ba, inda a 1999 aka ba da umurni, cewa liwadi ne na al'ada, kuma sauran abubuwan da za a iya yin jima'i su ne ɓata.
Yaya za a tantance jituwa tsakanin jima'i, bi da bi?
Tun da daidaitawar jima'i yana da yawa kuma yana iya canzawa, ba dukkan mutane zasu iya ƙayyade ainihin su ba. Tare da wannan aikin zai taimaka wajen jimre wa jigilar jima'i Klein.
Don auna ma'aunin jima'i, wajibi ne a yanayi uku: da suka wuce (shekaru 5 da suka wuce), yanzu (shekarar bara) da kuma makomar makoma, don kimanta sifofin bakwai
:- Jima'i jima'i - wakilan abin da jima'i ke haifar da jin daɗi.
- Halin jima'i - tare da wakilan abin da jima'i ke aikatawa daban-daban na jima'i: kissing, having sex, etc.
- Jima'i jima'i - wakilan abin da jima'i da kuke yawanci wakilta a cikin tunanin kuɗi, da kuma wanda kuke tunani a lokacin self-gratification.
- Ra'ayoyin motsa jiki - wanda mutane suke so su kasance abokai, don kulawa da dangantaka, su raba abubuwa masu ɓoye, da dai sauransu.
- Bukatun zamantakewa - tare da wakilan abin da jima'i ya fi sauƙi don samun lambar sadarwa a rayuwar yau da kullum: aiki, sadarwa, ciyar lokaci mai kyau.
- Tare da wakilai na wacce zance, yawancin ku ke yin amfani da lokaci kyauta: tare da mutane masu kama da juna, ko sauransu.
- Bayanin kai-kai - wane nau'i ne kake nuna kanka.
Ɗauki takarda, raba shi cikin ginshiƙai guda uku: baya, yanzu, da kuma nan gaba . Bayan haka, ka cika kowannensu bakwai layi akan waɗannan karatun. A sakamakon haka, a cikin kwayoyin 21, lambobi daga 0 zuwa 6 ya kamata a rubuta.
Amsa bayanan amsoshi:
- 0 - kawai mutanen da ba na jima'i ba;
- 1 - mafi yawa yawan mutanen da ba jima'i ba, amma wani lokacin kansu;
- 2 - bambancin jima'i yana da rinjaye, amma maza ma'aurata suna da muhimmiyar rawa;
- 3 - daidai da duka biyu, da kuma jima'i;
- 4 - darajar 2, amma madaidaiciya;
- 5 - darajar 1, amma madaidaiciya;
- 6 - kawai mutane daga jima'i.
Kuna buƙatar lissafin adadin kowane shafi, sa'an nan kuma raba kashi da aka samu ta 3. Bayan haka, ƙara sakamakon kowane ginshiƙan, sa'annan ku rarraba sakamakon ta 21.