Psychology na rashin kulawa

Rashin kula da mutum da / ko halin da ake ciki shine daya daga cikin hanyoyi na yau da kullum na kare tsaro ko azabtarwa. Tare da mahimmanci na sauki, ba yawa yana da tasiri kamar yadda wannan tsari ya zama mai sauki. Haɗari shine cewa fasaha na watsi da wuya ya jagoranci zuwa mafita karshe na wasu matsalolin, domin, a gaskiya ma, hanya ce ta guje wa kowane mataki. Za muyi karin bayani game da ilimin kimiyya na watsi da yau.

Nunawa a matsayin kariya

Ta hanyar watsi, a matsayin hanyar da za a iya karewa don bayyanar matsala ta musamman, mutum zai haifar da wani matsala mai mahimmanci, wanda babu wani bayani game da shi. Abin da ake kira matashi maras amfani ya taimaka wajen gano shi.

Nuna Matrix

Matakan da ba a sani ba shine samfurin musamman wanda ya ɗauki rashin kulawa dangane da nau'in nau'i da matakin. Wadannan ra'ayoyin biyu sunyi kama da wasu har ma suna canzawa.

1. Types of sakawa:

• watsi da gaskiyar abinda ke faruwa. A wannan yanayin, mun ƙi ganin wannan ko yanayin da ke haifar da wata matsala;
• watsi da gaskiyar matsalar. Irin wannan rashin kulawa yana nufin yarda da abin da ke faruwa, amma ƙin gane cewa gaskiyar tana wakiltar matsala;
• watsi da damar. Ka ga halin da ake ciki, gane matsalar, amma ka watsi da wanzuwar hanyoyin da za a iya magance shi.

2. Nunawa matakin:

• watsi da samun dama;
• watsi da muhimmancin damar, kawai magana - shakka game da tasirin su;
• watsi da zaɓi na sauya damar;
• watsi da kwarewa na sirri, hade da rashin tsaro a cikin kwarewarsu da tsoron rashin iyawa don amfani da damar.

Matakan da ba a sani ba suna ba da haɗin nau'in iri da matakan da ba a kula da su ba, suna yin zane na uku ginshiƙai (iri) da layuka hudu (matakan). Hanyar yin amfani da matakan ba da damar ba ka damar samun ɓangaren bayanin da aka bari, hana maganin wani matsala. Don yin wannan, dole ne ka fara duba kowace tantanin halitta, farawa daga kusurwar hagu na matrix, yana motsawa a ƙasa.

Ya kamata mu ambata game da wannan abu mai ban mamaki kamar yadda rashin kulawa ya kasance, lokacin da yanayin rashin tausayi ya faru ne saboda gaskiyar cewa ba mu ga wani amfani na mutum ba, daga shiga cikin wani mataki. Misalin mafi yawan misali shi ne rashin amincewa don zuwa za ~ u ~~ uka, shiga cikin zanga-zanga, da dai sauransu. A wannan yanayin, ilimin ilimin kimiyya na rashin kulawa ana ganin shi a matsayin kariya, a wannan yanayin, rashin wucewa yana kare mana farashin makamashi.

Yin watsi da matsayin hanya na azabtarwa

Sau da yawa muna amfani da hanyar rashin kula, ƙoƙarin rinjayar wasu. Harkokin ilimin kimiyya na rashin kulawa da mutum shi ne cewa ba mu kula da wanda muke so mu yi hukunci ba, don zalunta.

Bugu da ƙari, dalilin da ake ƙyalewa, a cikin ɓarna, yana iya zama ƙoƙari don jawo hankali. Don haka, alal misali, dalili na watsi da matar mutum na iya zama sha'awarta ya nuna wa mutum laifinsa. Matsalar ita ce irin wannan hanyar, a matsayin jagora, ta sadu da zalunci da rashin fahimta. Men yawanci ba su san yadda za a mayar da martani ga rashin kula ba, kuma su amsa a cikin tsabar kudin. Sai dai itace mummunar lalacewar rashin aiki da rikici.

Bugu da} ari, 'yan mata sukan yi amfani da rashin kulawa lokacin da suke so su ja hankalin mutum da suke so. A wannan yanayin, suna la'akari da ilimin farauta.

Duk da haka dai, rashin kulawa abu ne mai mahimmanci, wanda ya sa wanda ya rabu da ikonsa da alhakinsa. Ka tuna, sau da yawa wannan hanya ba ta hadu da tsammanin ba.