Mata da yawa a cikin rayuwansu a kalla sau ɗaya suna fuskanci halin banza da kuma rashin lalata a kan maza. Ya kamata a lura cewa wannan yanayi mara kyau, a matsayin mulki, ya tashi a cikin sufuri na jama'a. Rashin jima'i shine bambancin jima'i na kowa (bambanci). Za mu magana game da shi a yau.
Inda kuma lokacin
Frotterism shine karkatawa a cikin halin jima'i, inda ake samun farin ciki da gamsuwa ta hanyar shafe al'amuran game da wani ɓangare na jikin mutum. Yawancin lokaci yana girma cikin jima'i da jima'i kuma yana iya kawo karshen jima'i. Sau da yawa, mutumin da yake yin wannan, yana nuna sassan jikin jima'i. Duk da haka, a mafi yawan lokuta, ya yi haka ta hanyar tufafi. Zaka iya la'akari da wannan bambance-bambancen a matsayin nau'i na exhibitionism. A ƙarshe, ɗayan suna cikin sha'awar nuna al'amuran su ga jama'a. Masu zanga-zangar da suka "yi amfani", a matsayin mai mulkin, zaɓen wuraren shakatawa, wuraren shakatawa da kuma dakatar da hanyoyi. Idan kana da wani mutum mai laushi mai haske, wanda aka boye masa tsiraicinsa, sai dai ya juya baya ya tafi. Ƙananan ƙaunar da kuke nunawa, ƙananan damar da zai yi don jin daɗin ayyukansa.
A ina za mu fuskanci irin wannan abu? Hakika, a cikin sufuri na jama'a, a cikin rush hour. Metro, bas - frotter (tsunduma frotterizmom) aiki a cikin taron, zabi babban taron jama'a. Ba tare da kuskuren kusanci wani abu mai mahimmanci ba, sai ya fara kusanci. Mutum yana aikata haɗayyar jima'i yayin da zirga-zirga ke motsawa. Wannan yana taimakawa ga gaskiyar cewa wanda ke fama da frotterism ba zai iya fahimtar abin da ke faruwa a hankali ba. Zai shafe kan abin da yake son zuciyarsa, ya yi jima'i, ya nuna jigilar jima'i.
A waje, mutum ba sananne ba ne. Bugu da ƙari, a lokacin aiwatar da ƙaura, ya zauna ba tare da tsoro ba, kamar yadda babu abin da ya faru. Idan kun nuna mummunan tashin hankali, zalunci, ya firgita kuma ya gudu ya gudu.
Dalilin
Dalili na wannan karkacewa shine rashin lafiya ta jiki a kan tushen rayuwar jima'i marasa cin nasara. Wannan karshen zai iya haifar da haka:
- rashin sanin jima'i, matsaloli a dangantaka;
- matsaloli na ci gaban jiki;
- marigayi ko kuskuren jima'i;
- Abubuwan da suka faru a lokacin balaga. Yarinyar mai sauƙin karuwa zai iya amsawa tare da kafawa don taɓa jikin mace a cikin taron;
- peculiarities na upbringing;
- ciwon zuciya a cikin yara;
- ƙara yawan haɓaka, haɗakarwa ta jima'i;
- tayi (tufafi, sassan jikin mace);
- rashin kulawa daga jinsi ba.
Yau tserewa
Idan a cikin zirga-zirga na jama'a kai a cikin wannan labari mara kyau, to, ya fi kyau a ci gaba kamar haka:
- Da farko, kada ku firgita;
- tashin hankali a kanka zai iya zama "bayoneti" - ba ka san abin da wannan mutumin yake ba;
- a cikin irin wannan rashin fahimta, bar wurinka ko ka fita daga sufuri a iyakar mafi kusa.
Kowane mace na iya samun kanta a irin wannan yanayi mara kyau. Ya kamata in jawo hankali idan na riga na so in fada ta ƙasa? Don shirya wani yanayi tare da kyamar rai ba shi da ma'ana - ba zai iya gyara abin da ke faruwa ba. Bugu da ƙari, dole ne ka fahimci cewa kai mai rashin lafiya ne. Ga wasu zai zama abin ƙyama, amma nuna tausayi da tausayi. Kawai ɓoye a cikin taron fasinjoji ba tare da komai ba.
Kowace hanya, frotterism shine mafi sauki kuma mafi ƙanƙanta daga duk abin da ke cikin jima'i.